Communication: In Words & Beyond

Dear all, This time we will talk and discuss about communication in relationships

• How do you show romantic interest? • How do you approch a person you want to start a conversation with, having a romantic interest? With what words do you initiate a conversation? • And how good are you at recognizing when someone else is interested in you? • What words would you like to hear from someone who communicates romantic interest? • How would you describe your gut feeling when you approach and are being approached?

• When you have established relationship: • What is truely good communication then? Is it words, attention, questions, eye contact, something else or all together? • How well do your words typically match your actions? Have you observed your partner saying certain things and doing other? How to approach that in a correct way? • Which one should we trust when they contradict each other? • What do you communicate without saying anything? Think about eye contact, facial expressions, touch, distance, silence, and body language. • Do you communicate directly what you want and need, or do you expect the other person to understand without being told? • What happens to your communication when you feel vulnerable? Do you become more open, quiet, defensive, humorous, distant, or demanding? • Is silence also communication? What can silence mean in dating: comfort, insecurity, punishment, disinterest, attraction, or simply needing space? • How do you communicate disagreement? Can you say *“I don't agree with you”* while maintaining warmth, curiosity, and respect? • How should we interpret mixed signals? If someone's words say *“I like you”* but their behaviour says *“I'm unavailable,”* which message matters more? *

We will talk-work in mixed gender groups of 6-10 people at several tables and see where this will take you! A warm welcome!

Vilija and team

In order to support this group going I kindly ask you to contribute with 100 sek ink VAT. Please pay at registration: Swish 123-1125863. ***

A Different Date is an educational discussion event developed from the Practical Psychology Club. It offers you a chance to understand yourself better while meeting other singles who are also looking for a meaningful relationship. Important criteria

• Openness, curiosity, and a willingness to know yourself better while connecting with others through meaningful conversations. • A moderated discussion based on open-ended questions and reflective insights.

This is an educational activity, not a speed-dating event or matchmaking service. The aim is to promote self-awareness and authentic connections with other singles.

I look forward to meeting you! Vilija Oke (MD, PhD and mentor)