The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm

In *The Art of Loving*, German psychoanalyst and social psychologist Erich Fromm argues that love is not simply a feeling that happens to us, but a skill that must be practiced and developed. He explores romantic love, parental love, self-love, brotherly love, and love of humanity, arguing that genuine love requires responsibility, respect, and care. **Join us to discuss this classic book!** **Required Reading** You are encouraged to read the entire book. We know that it is high summer, however - and that rooftop bars and beaches are competing for your attention! **To help facilitate a focused and engaging discussion, the following sections (around 70 pages total) are mandatory to participate in the conversation:** \- Chapter I: Is Love an Art? \- Chapter II: The Theory of Love 1\. Love\, the Answer to the Problem of Human Existence 3\. The Objects of Love \- Brotherly Love \- Chapter III: Love and Its Disintegration in Contemporary Western Society (Read through the discussion of Freud on p.86 in the HarperPerennial edition) \- Chapter IV: The Practice of Love (Read through the paragraph that begins “The faith in others has its culmination in faith in mankind,” on p.115 in the HarperPerennial edition) \- I will be reading the paperback version [here](https://www.amazon.com/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm/dp/0061129739/ref=sr_1_1?crid=94HTXL8Y53PJ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.E9O_alIhLorTFlWoGOOOP5rfzQSZ3dKJgkl-7yZdjs7wi194T3NYQyJSNwrTjw7ba532emWc42gvDF8MNYBtwAdSVAopmgNgmmZr02KPxjMzYPK2Xu1tJhUy_4-Vkpk4S-0eYUEEWsTFZz_kN_SzQEmClKvqS-ZuJlrEobGL98Zzygtz3B-teBEFfRFeL9En6oVuU7lr_ZMQ70cD6tET3x3wW5QO508-vkJ4kMZubsM.kZgT_O4V76hpK-lerhg06VXwRbnJikjmGActRN3yObc&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+art+of+loving+erich+fromm&qid=1784214191&sprefix=the+art+of+loving+erich+fromm%2Caps%2C195&sr=8-1) \- Free pdf download [here](https://annas-archive.gl/md5/88c1a62593eee080c4e960e865f0c04b) \*click on the first slow download option (Other formats available too —ePub & Mobi for kindle—just search in search bar) **Rules for Our Group** **1\. Be Courteous** Respectful disagreement is totally acceptable; Condescension is not. **2\. Be Concise** Keep comments brief, on topic, and allow space for others to join in. **3\. Do the Reading** If you have not done the reading for the week you are welcome to attend and *listen* to the discussion, but out of respect for those who have read, you will not be permitted to participate in the discussion. Finally, **Please update your RSVP if you are no longer able to attend the event.** * inaccurate RSVPs make it difficult for coordinators to plan successful events * inaccurate RSVPs prevent waitlisted individuals from attending \*Multiple no shows may result in losing RSVP privileges for future events. For more info and FAQ on the group click here. Can't wait to discuss these ideas with all of you! \- Josephine\, Oriane & Frank