Shy Philosophers on Status

Let’s consider:

1. What is status? How is it different from wealth, power, or popularity, and can someone have one without the others? 2. Status depends on how others evaluate us rather than on anything we possess outright. What follows from the fact that our standing is, in a sense, held by other people? 3. Where do you notice status operating in everyday life: at work, among friends, online, in families? Are some settings free of it, or is it everywhere? 4. Status hierarchies can help groups cooperate by clarifying who leads, who is trusted, and whose contributions count. Do these benefits justify the inequalities they create? 5. How much of the status we assign to people reflects their actual contributions, and how much reflects assumptions attached to categories like gender, race, class, age, or accent? 6. Is the desire for status a basic human need, a cultural product, or a mix of both? Would a society that cared less about status be better, or simply different? 7. Some argue that competing for esteem drives people to excel and contribute; others argue it breeds anxiety, resentment, and conspicuous display. Which effect dominates, and does it depend on the setting? 8. Can status be distributed more equally, or does esteem lose its meaning if everyone receives it? What would a fairer status system look like?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can watch or listen to this podcast episode:

• Ezra Klein Show: We Build Civilizations on Status. But We Barely Understand It. • Cecilia Ridgeway, Guest-host Rogé Karma interviews Cecilia Ridgewayd, author of Status: Why Is It Everywhere? Why Does It Matter? (2019). • NYT Link: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/09/13/opinion/ezra-klein-podcast-cecilia-ridgeway.html • Direct available in a comment below for attendees.

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